Driveshaft problems.
IMHO the first reason for the early paralevers shaft weakness is the fact that BMW moved from oiled joints to dry ones, that couldn't stand the stress as well as the original monolever.
The concept of transfering the propulsion torque back to the chassis was and is valid and works, the evidence you can see everyday in all big BMW's today.
Universal joints of the kind used by BMW produce cycles of accelerations and deccelerations which stress them more than just the torque that drives throgh them. However, when the setup is like what we find in paralever BMW's, the output shaft and bevel shaft more or less parralel, the two joints theoreticaly cancel each other cycle, if constructed in the correct way.
The bigger the angle the joints have to work with the bigger the stress, thats why as you wrote, road paralever holds better over time. Also, offroading can put the joints through sever cycles of great torque used by rider, something non existent on the road (the lower the gearing the greater the torque that goes through to the wheel.
That's why, I think, modified shafts with grease nipples are much more reliable, just becaus one has a way to insert grease into the shity bearings every once in a while.
On my bike, the previous owner improvised with a joint from a little Fiat, I have no idea who did it for him, but it is still running fine.
Lastly, I'm sure Howard's bike behaves like a monolever, the torque produced pushes the wheel down as in any old Beemer, or Guzzi.
Miky