...anyway, back to elastictrickery.
Working with electricity capacities is pretty simple - add up the number of watts and when it's more than the alternator can supply, you're going to be draining the battery. That's what happened Greg when his alternator was failing and was unable to keep up.
We did some sums a while ago and a fairly typical heated vest will draw around 60W.
Realistically, you're going to have to work very hard to get a purely electrical solution to this: Snoopy's bike can produce 180W, so finding 60W means saving 1/3 of the available power - but with a 120W alternator, you need to save 1/2 of the available power, and that's hard.
The most obvious savings that you can make are with bulbs, but only focus on the bulbs that are on for long periods. First consider changing the headlamp for a 35W HID - there will be more light and less drain for the cost of around £70 plus fitting. That's 20W saved, and just don't drop it in a puddle
After that, see if you can get replacements for the sidelights and the instrument lights, but you may have to shop around to get a decent price. Don't worry about the brake lights or the indicators, they won't make a big difference overall.
You must remember that the times that you will want the heat most are the times when you will want light most as well. That's alright once you've started in the morning, but last thing at night, draining too much power will mean that you're going to be parking with a partially charged battery. This is particularly important since, cold batteries don't work as well either
I definitely wouldn't bother with heated grips, do what Wiz says and get some muffs for your hands, and a gaucho would be a good idea too. Do go for the heated vest though, but keep it under as many layers as possible so that you keep your core warm. Following on from the hiking maxim that the best cure for cold feet is a hat, try to keep your head warm too.
You need to sit down and do some sums though. There are a whole variety of solutions, particularly if you can charge the batteries from the Landy.