Mark,
your too far from me or I would have done them for you, or at least showed you how.
Its real simple though. your bike has a power source to run stuff ( battery ) and the only thing to worry about is the location of the kit.
Aftermarket heated grips will come with full instructions and everything included. Just follow the instructions and plug everything together, there will be an in line fuse already attached to prevent any electrical issues, and at the very end will be two circular fittings that go on your battery, red to + and black to -
Once everything is in place you will need a load of cable ties to tidy everything up and keep it in place, just make sure that you can turn the bars from lock to lock without the wires getting snagged or tight.
The power socket is even easier, there will only be one wire with the same circular fittings on the end for the battery terminals red for + and - for negative. Again there will be an inline fuse between the battery terminals and the power socket, If not then you will need to fit one or make sure it has it before you buy.
then just find a suitable location for your power socket, Som epower sockets come with a bracket to attach to your panels etc. Depending on where you want it. Its probably best to find the location for the power socket first then you can thread the wires back the battery ( much easier than trying to get the power socket up inside panels etc.. )
I just wired up my bike with heated grips, intercom and heated jacket socket in about 30 minutes. they all come ready to fit and the hardest part is tidying up the wires and finding a way from the battery to their location.
Hope this helps a bit, if not come back to me and I will try to explain a bit better.
Chris