Well, I would have thought that rather obvious. I think that your regular recourse to the c*** word and other vulgar sexual and abusive terms to describe people, and instructing people to w*** over satirical stories about drunken incest sit rather uneasily with your opinions on the relationship between sex and abuse.
I have no idea what you are saying, to be honest. You make no sense whatsoever.
I have no problem with swearing, nor people swearing. Even the C word. I use it a lot. Some people don't like it, so I try my hardest not to use it when with them, but as it is part of the mainstream on this forum, c'est la vie, right? Or are you now railing against swearing and use of the word **** on the forum?
I also try not to be abusive towards people, but some people - take Garrod for instance - really test that. I have, on occasion deleted something I have written because I thought it too offensive, when written down, but I acknowledge that I am fallible.
I emphasised your use of the word "instructed" as I am not sure that I have instructed anyone to do any such thing. You might want to go and read that. What I said was, people can go and do whatever they like in respect of the aforementioned article. If that means getting their rocks off whilst doing so, there is nothing I can do about that and that is unfortunately the way of the world. I am not sure whether your discomfort about my use of language is because I am female, because I don't see you campaigning against anyone else's use of the same kind of language. Maybe that's a bit about your reading comprehension though, because you clearly see things that arent there.
As for the comment about my "opinons on the relationship between sex and abuse" well, there is a very clear relationship between the two. There is a closer link between power and abuse, but that discussion, I think, is possibly for another day. I wonder if you meant that there is a link between swearing and abuse, to which I would like to reply fuck right off.