Fairly convinced this is the cause of the vibration as it's not a gentle wave of a buckle, it swerves a fair bit at one area only. I think it explains why it only comes in at high speeds. Either way it needs sorting.
I had exactly the same issue you faced, including discovering the problem while traveling to Italy.

I had the rim fixed via Motoscot at the time, but I don't remember who the supplier was.
Have a similar issue with another set of spoked wheels for my GS, but everyone I phone refuses to touch BMW wheels.
PS. I am running another set of wheels with road tyres nowadays, but there is still a tiny bit of cyclical vibration on the bike. Bearings are ok. My guess is that it is induced by transmission.
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