I deliberately didn't post a piccy of the wiring, as I think if you are scared/bothered about relays, it's useful to UNDERSTAND how they work, then once you have that principle, the idea of an input (with an earth to go with it) causing an output, it's then a simple step to match up to a physical relay.
So here we go.....a standard 4 pin relay....
So you take a feed from your current horn wire (there are several ways of actually getting the feed but if you are unsure of electronics and haven't used crimpers etc before, I'd suggest using a positap) and connect that to terminal 86 using a female spade connector that's appropriately rated (to cut it short use a blue one

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Then take a wire from terminal 85 straight back to the battery negative (you'll need another blue female spade connector and then on the other end to the battery, a loop connector, probably a yellow one to get the hole big enough to attach to the negative post bolt)
A wire then comes from the battery POSITIVE, again using a yellow loop connector......although it's not shown on that diagram, you need to put an inline fuse holder in that wire with a 20 amp fuse in it, then connect that to terminal 30
Then finally, a wire from terminal 87 to the positive connector on the horn body.......and a wire from the negative terminal on the horn body to any bolt on the frame of the bike, or back to the battery negative terminal if you want.
To start off with, connect it up with the horn not mounted to the bike and the wiring all loose, test it to make sure it works then you can mount the horn, reconnect the wires and route them neatly, cutting some back to the right length and putting a new crimp on as necessary......then cable tie the wiring in place, make sure your relay is mounted securely and that's it, job done
EDIT....there are actually several different ways to wire the same relay, and if you get one in a kit that has 5 pins, don't worry, you can just ignore the one marked 87a in the centre.