Bollox- on the blower to Motorworks immediately, who couldn’t have been more helpful (thanks Stuart).
Apparently this is the second time a part has been incorrectly bagged at BMW, so now they have to check every part they get in fromBMW before it goes out.
...in my ignorance i didn't know a neutral switch went there...until I found an extra hole with no nice S/S plug in it
Managed to get it in by supporting the engine/box with a jack and sliding the rear engine bolt and central fat spacer out ... was a ball-ache though but worked