YSS make inserts for the mono forks.
Munich Motorcycles in Perth , Australia is the only place I have seen them.
Wilbers will have a set of fork springs to match your shock spring, and a recommendation on the oil to go with them.
Generally, the recommendation for shocks is that you start with 17 mm preload on the shock spring, and check to see if your sag is within the recommend range at that setting.
If you cant get it in the range with a 2 mm change either way to the preload you have the wrong spring, and this goes for any shock you can buy.
Then you want the set the front to 5/10 mm more dynamic sag than the rear.
So if you have backed the preload right off wind it back up to get around 42/44 mm sag at the back, to match the 52 mm at the front, then check to see how much preload you have on the spring. I have the Wilbers shock/ fork springs up on my VFR set that way, although the adjustable preload on the forks makes it easy to get the final balance just right.
I ended up with the stock 42mm at the rear and 48mm sag at the front on the Veefer.
IMHO it is the balance front to rear that you are setting when you fine tune the suspension, not some arbitrary sag figure.
I can adjust both ends of my GS on the move, and it doesnt matter which end I do the fine tuning at, when the balance is right both ends feel their best.
I know it sounds silly but there is a school of thought that says that the fork action on the BMW forks is better with 15 wt oil in one leg only, than it is with 7 1/2 wt in both legs - remember the paralever forks have all the compression in one side , and all the rebound in the other, and they work fine that way.
I try Motul full synth 10 wt fork oil in everything I have - I got fed up having half a dozen different half used bottles of fork oil lying around, and I like soft set springs / more damping too, so I add a bit 20 wt oil if the damping seems a bit weak.