Hi Wapping
Me as well mate,she screams at me lol. what triggered it for both of us is when coming out of eiffel region last year was taking a shortcut up to a motorway, steep uphill single track road with seven hairpins on top of each other like stacking bricks, full lock with two up and luggage with no room for cars as well, lucky for us a van was coming down right at the top otherwise f--- knows what we could have done very lucky we were ok(due to my riding skill i have no doubt lol) so yes bit nervy on finding that every couple miles
Dave
Easypeasy solution.... Avoid single track shortcuts to motorways
Seriously, if you both get into a state
before you go it will do you no good at all. Bikes prefer the relaxed rider, as it lets them (the bike) get on with it. Bikes hate the 'death grip, eyes on stalks, I am going to surely die' rider... as it upsets them, emotionally.
Go deep (as in VERY DEEP) into the harpin and look (as in LOOK) right around the bend......your head may well get to 90 degrees.... and LOOK (that word again) as far as possible along the road, into the distance you want to go in; vision is everything.....the bike WILL go round all on its own. Inevitably you'll cock some up, we always do.... the most common problem being turning in too early, hitting the apex at very nearly right angles, which is usually the steepest bit and the most rucked up....
As you approach the hairpin..... LOOK what is coming up the hill or coming down.... if there is nothing coming you can go in really wide and deep, increasing the bend's radius, which makes it much easier. If you think you'll meet the vehicle on the apex (which is not clever) slow down. 9 times out of 10 the other vehicle will slow too, as they do not want to knock you off any more than you want to hit them. If it's a big lorry or a coach (if they can do it, you certainly can) STOP somewhere safe and give them room to complete
their manoeuvre first; it's common sense, really.
Let the engine rev.... it won't die. It makes the bike responsive to drive and / or slows it quickly on the engine braking. Drive is good (as in GOOD)

Rolling is not good (as in NOT good).
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If all else fails.....
Work out that you will not be the first go up and down and probably won't be the last. If these duffers (plucked at random from Google images) can do it.... so can you...