My R80G/S BMW Reparaturanleitung from 1981 states 50 +/- 2 Nm for the con rod bolts.
There's no mention of oiled or not, but there is a sort of philosophical / mathematical treatise on screw pitches, tightening torque, stretch and DIN numbers at the beginning of the manual with associated tables (for those brainy German workshop mechanics with a Realschule pass in automotive engineering). Does anyone know offhand the material of and coating on these bolts, then I might be able to deduce whether it's considered to be correct to oil them or not?
To be honest, I'm thinking that it doesn't matter, otherwise there would probably be some info about degreasing the female threads in the bearing cap. As the advice is to coat everything liberally before assembly, oily is almost certainly the expected condition of the threads, notwithstanding the use of new bolts.