Its just a big meccano set for big boys, patience is key, none of it is beyond the average home mechanic.
It all comes apart and goes back together easily enough, the only drama I found was getting the rear subframe to align with its bolt holes whilst trying to engage the driveshaft splines onto the gearbox at the same time, you need many hands. An option would be to fit the subframe to the engine/gearbox without the swinging arm fitted, then rebuild things in stages but I just put half the bike back together in one go to save time.
I think last time I did a Hexhead clutch, I used a ratchet strap to keep the back half of the bike roughly in place under slight tension whilst I jiggled the driveshaft around to get it horizontal and engaged on the gearbox splines, then ratcheted it forwards and got the frame mounting bolts in.
Hopefully the legend that is Steptoe will be along soon with a few hot tips for reassembly, I've only done three hexhead clutches, he must have done dozens.
As for lubricating the splines, a lot of old timers would periodically strip their boxers apart to lube the gearbox/clutch splines as preventative maintenance. I would recommend burnishing the splines with a little Moly 60 paste to provide a small degree of appropriate lubrication, but go easy and wipe off any excess........ Do a bit of googling on how Molybdenum Disulphide bonds alternating layers of Moly and sulphur to sliding surfaces like shafts, splines etc for lubrication and remains working even when dry.