I'm not quite sure what point you're making there but no, I own several bikes, some with shit suspension and some with suspension that can take more than my ham fisted riding can throw at it
It's just, for me, ESA crosses a line I don't feel the need to cross........ I do stress the 'for me' bit though. I'm certainly not preaching what others should do.
You make a point about ESA being convenient for switching between one up/two up/luggage. Yes it is but, as you've had quality suspension, you'll also appreciate that properly set up quality shocks need nothing more that a one minute manual adjustment to preload to achieve the same. There is no need to change any of the compression variables as a decent and properly set up shock has enough range to cope.
Anyway, I'm not looking for an argument, I was just giving a slightly different way at looking at the issue. The way I look at it.
Andres