I think I ending up using the load shedding relay for the same reasons you state. Can't really remember as I've slept since then. But I made a note of what I did in the wiring diagram
Basically What I did was to change where the Merkin chappies take the live off the alternator blue wire
I take mine off the bottom of the load relief relay in the wiring box I've done quite a few for folks now
Lift the fuse box lid and have the bike on centrestand and press the starter button I think it's the second relay from the left side When you press the starter it will clunk and clunk again when you release the button So you know you have the right one If the clunking on and off of the ABS is distracting just unplug the light blue relay it will stop the clicking
All you are doing is making and breaking a circuit using a relay
You break into the green wire on terminal 15 in the ABS connector solder and insulate the wires and rebuild the connector you are finished in there and I run the wires back to the fusebox and put them on the "load" terminals on my new relay 30 and 87 on a standard 12v relay
I cut the first plastic divider out with a hacksaw blade (It makes life soooooo much easier) I lift up the relay block and I find the wire that goes dead when the starter is pushed this the tripping wire , I break in to it and make a short spur this goes to one of the tripping circuit terms 85 or 86 whatever terminal 85 or 86 that isn't used yet goes to a good earth, I usually use a decent crimped cable lug and fit it under the seat mount blocks just by the fusebox
A basic principle of the relay you are energising or tripping the relay with the 85 and 86 terminal connection and the ABS wire is thru connected on the 87 and 30 terminals When you switch on your ignition you get the normal flashing lamps
Once you tap the starter button the ABS thinks it is off (One red lamp stays on steady while the starter is pressed the other is off) and does not self check until you release the starter and the relay reconnects again Usually you will have the engine running and there is no current drain and therefore no low voltage
BE WARNED If you have a dodgy starter it may draw a helluva lot of current and I believe but have no proof that excessive current surge is what usually kills hall sensor units
I also do the "start the bike with the sidestand up" mod They really do modernise the 1100s