At last, success
Right then.
Finally, I got the bastard thing off, after a week or so of trying all sorts
Freeze spray didn't work - cheers tho Kenny - think it'd work on some other things, such as a rusty thing on a rusty thing, might try it as a fast cooler for me beer

sure it'll come in handy
Heat didn't work either, but I didn't go too mad (ie not red-hot) and didn't budge it either - but equally didn't bugger the seals.
Prising etc nowt
The puller fnally worked though, £16 well spent.
For those not great in the garage (hello

) an explaination.
The puller works against the stud and brings the mount forward in (as near as possible) in a straight line, which you can't get by prising or hammering etc.
As the bearing sleeve is such a ridiculously tight fit I was concerned about the force I'd need to apply to the stud, I used loads of penetrating fluid (remember, this was a new fit, so not 'corroded' on - just to assist if possible). I used care and moved slowly.
Even then the pointy bit on the puller was flattened by the load and the end of the stud was very, very minor deformed (made sure nut was on to 'support' thread and ensure I could protect it).
Pictures, puller showing where I had to grind a bit off so legs would go behind lower part of shocker.