You want a broad spread of heat not a direct "pencil flame" effect, hence suggesting a fan heater. When I last removed my front shock I used a Black & Decker hot air paint stripper gun on the threaded side of the lower shock bolt/wishbone but kept it moving to prevent scorching the painted finish and avoided close contact. Once hot the bolt unscrewed with reasonable force without binding, first using a breaker bar then swapping to a ratchet.
I think a soldering iron on the bolt end would take all day.
Have you found a way to undo the bolt yet, eg hammer a Torx drive bit into it? Without a method of undoing the bolt, the hot air on the threads won't make any difference to your dilemma.