Every time I see one of these sorts of threads, they descend into two sides insulting each other...
I too have seen bereavement of one of the kids’ grandparents last year, followed by one of the kids being taken into critical care for COVID plus pneumonia and needing 5 days on oxygen to stop him suffocating to death. I completely understand the frustration of both sides, but I can see that taking care is respecting other people where being flippant is the opposite. It’s like the point of wearing a mask being to protect other people.
I do these things to protect ‘you’ so why can’t ‘you’ do the same for me..?