According to my Haynes manual....
We know you are using a Haynes manual, you told us. I only posted the link's info as it allegedly came from BuMW's own service ROM (by chance for the same year of bike)....
....Check with your BuMW dealer when you take the bike there to have the ripped thread repaired. From memory I have never torqued the handlebar bolts, just tuned the spanner / socket on each in a sequence (so they bedded down evenly) until they seemed sensibly tight. 'Gently tightish' and up to a quarter turn - using a reasonably sensible length of decently made spanner, is often not a bad rule of thumb. BuMW seem to have torque settings for just about every bolt on the bike, including the wing mirror nuts...... no doubt someone, somewhere, will have torqued the wing mirror.....
You can't rely on the torque settings for other bolts (for instance the fork slider pinch bolts in your example) as it will depend on the bolt's size, purpose, material and the material it is bolting into.
PS I echo the learning curve sentiment. You have made an innocent mistake, which is easy and not too expensive to mend. Nobody has died and at least you have had a go
I would though maybe think hard about getting a bit of professional help with the cutting out of the new thread. Cock that up and you will be in trouble.



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