family sh-t

[(RIP) beamerjon]

Had to sell my most prized possesion to help out a family member who got £80'000 six months ago its all gone he is in the sh-t what do you do when you love your son so much ??????????

 

[Bryn]

So he's spent the dosh and got himself in the mire ?

 

[DavidJames]

Had to sell my most prized possesion to help out a family member who got £80'000 six months ago its all gone he is in the sh-t what do you do when you love your son so much ??????????

Have yet another drink? but you probably already did that.

 

[(RIP) beamerjon]

yes and no drugs involved either just stupid ????

 

[Bryn]

You've got to ask yourself if you bail him out is he going to learn from it I think I'd draw the line pretty soon....

 

[abrasion]

totally agree Bryn
His shit , let him clean it up.
Just the way i look at it.

 

[twizzle]

Do not make it too easy....no matter how hard....(unless he bought you the bike!!!!!))

 

[(RIP) beamerjon]

You've got to ask yourself if you bail him out is he going to learn from it I think I'd draw the line pretty soon....

I did that when he was 21 he is know 24 the wife is the best woman in the world been married 26 years, i will always come second but i love her so much not good but what can i do?????

 

[luke scott]

Thank god drugs are not the issue. If they were it would be time to stop the love. But as a parent of four I agree with the above posts that say let him learn the hard way if he has pished away £80k.

 

[Mr K]

Eighty fuckin grand?

Most of us will never have that to splash in a lifetime.

Speechless.

 

[Buz]

80K in 6 months, not on drugs or property or a vehicle (I assume or he'd still have it) thats going some

It's yer kid though, hard call

 

[Bryn]

Sometimes you've got to be cruel to be kind..... I've got 3 of the buggers and I try to be firm but fair

 

[Dezidero]

i cant believe you actually put it up for public debate !

 

[Timolgra]

Help your lad out or sell a Suzuki...hmmmm hard choice.

 

[Mr K]

My house cost £43k and the mortgage don't end for another 8 years...

Wake up!!

 

[Ash]

it's only money

 

[Decster]

If its not drugs it must be gambling and that is a black hole. If you give now he'll keep coming back.

 

[Vern]

If it was mine,the little fecker wouldn't have woken up yet.

 

[chad]

Had to sell my most prized possesion to help out a family member who got £80'000 six months ago its all gone he is in the sh-t what do you do when you love your son so much ??????????

kick his fuckin arse up and down the street till he learns some sence

 

[brassmonkey001]

Lets have the story then. We're judging at straws here.