regarding sealing the big nut I changed from a aluminum sealing washer to a copper one.
put ptfe tap on threads and used fibre washers instead of copper washers under the damper rod nut that sticks out the bottom. used sae 5 motul fork oil.
So I have cured my stiction fork problem.. removed and stripped forks. top rubber buffers had disintegrated. the fork oil resembled crumbled up digestive biscuits mixed with fork oil and sand. it was all inside the damper rods and both the sprung loaded ball valves were blocked completely. it was all around the piston rings. jamming the whole thing up.
I washed everything out, fitted new top and bottom buffers. and the springs were sticking out the top of the forks about 2". before they were about 1/2". due to no top rebound buffers. fitted new seals rubber grease around the seals. fitted gaiters, and reassembled the front end,