OK - I have a laptop and a little netbook both with latest version of Mapsource on. However netbook, which did not have a CD drive, was running an older version of City Navigator. Copied the necessary files onto a portable drive - and now have 2008 City Navigator on GPS, and both computers, so should be ok..
.. but, spoke to Sam at Garmin UK who says that the only real way to stop your GPS route IN ANY WAY from changing a carefully planned route on Mapsource is to put in lots and lots of map points!! - what a pain this would be if you are on a long extended trip!
I guess I can turn recalculate to either off or prompted on the GPS device with the same effect. BUT, I really just want to be assured that a route planned at length on Mapsource will be followed religiously by the GPS device ...
Ah, the maps were different. So, that's cleared that up.
Now to your new observation.
It is not a pain at all.
Most days' rides on most holidays are what? 300 miles, 400 miles? Many bods baulk at doing that. Do not do routes much over that length as you do not need to.
I plan my daily routes using the Route Tool, simply clicking on the roads I want to use, in conjunction with a decent map. I do this so that the device then calculates the route where I want it to go, not where Mapsource wants it to go.
I add very few waypoints, if any at all. More often than not I have no waypoints, as they can often become a pain in the arse (see other thread).
Of course I was going miles off road and definitely needed to pass through a certain waddi or sand dune, or turn at a specific palm tree then I would use waypoints, or I would never know where I was. But, on the roads of Europe, with buildings, signs and numbers I can manage without; the Route tool with it's little trail of electronic dots is fine. It simply gives the gps device and clever route plotting software something to refer to, nothing more.
If you go to the 80 Vireees a moto sticky thread in the French Travel section you will see lots of examples of what I mean. No waypoints, just clicks with the Route tool. They didn't take long but there is a few thousand miles of very detailed roads.
Of course if you just click on two distant places, with nothing in between, and simply say to the PC or the device, "Take me from here to here, according to the Preferences I set" and then it later needs to recalculate (say because you go off route due to a detour) it may well change the route as it has to, in order to get you to where you wanted to go in the first place. You will be moaning if it simply stopped the moment you deviated from the route, would you not?
Try helping your gps device along, it will help you later more than you will ever know.

. No dots. - just two waypoints. If you want to go via a specific place, click on that place before the destination - or put it afterwards with the waypoint tool and drag the route to it.