Thanks I was on it tonight, no hidden plug . Anyway
Last night I bought the plug from eBay, who knows what quality and when it will turn up coming from Bulgaria.
So this morning I stop off at my sisters house , yesterday she’d had a mobile mechanic there working on her Audi suspension, rear brakes etc.
On the ground next to the car there was the Bosch plug with some wires!
So it seems like the required plug is on Audi brake wear sensors unless it was randomly dropped by the mechanic.
Left me with mixed emotions, good that I could do the wiring tonight, bad as I wasted money